What to do when someone calls you “selfish.” (Or anything else.)

  1. Blame ourselves
  2. Blame others
  3. Sense into our own feelings and needs
  4. Sense into other person’s feelings and needs

--

--

--

I help people build lives that work better for them + write a weekly newsletter: katieseaver.com/newsletter

Love podcasts or audiobooks? Learn on the go with our new app.

Recommended from Medium

Who Are You When It Gets Real?

It’s Easy To Get Angry At The Secret.

15 Steps To Create Your Ideal Life

Believe in Yourself

Dilemma of An Aging Unemployed Nobody

Why has it become okay to be wrong?

This Three-Letter Nemesis is Destroying You and Your Future

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store
Katie Seaver

Katie Seaver

I help people build lives that work better for them + write a weekly newsletter: katieseaver.com/newsletter

More from Medium

Things To Consider When Dealing with Difficult People

6 Things You Should Not Do in Your First Date

Where to Eat Out?

6 Ways to Stop Your Post-breakup Anxiety